Ding Liren, Vishy Anand, Vidit Gujrathi, Praggnanandhaa, and I – what do
we all have in common? Rain or shine, we regularly attend chess tournaments,
sitting through hours of gameplay, and at the end, nodding at people with a
smile, irrespective of the result. But unlike them, to move the pieces around
on the board, I'd need unnaturally long arms that might have to bend at odd
angles and sometimes navigate through walls that separate the players' hall and
the parents' waiting area.
Being a chess mom is much less glamorous than one would imagine. For
one, you don't get to see your child play as you would if they were playing
cricket or badminton. Sure, there are live telecasts on certain websites.
However, I learned only much later (than I'd like to admit in public) that such
privileges are reserved only for the first 5 or 10 boards. Until your child
reaches one of those 'top' tables, you'll have to make do with their hurriedly
scribbled, blotched, scratched, and incomplete scoresheets they bring back
after the games.
The waiting rooms for parents are usually top-notch – you might
occasionally be lucky enough to find a roof overhead or luxurious furnishings
such as slightly faded plastic stools or chairs (perhaps standing in solidarity
with color diversity?). They might have a slightly broken backrest or armrest,
but why would any rational person lean back on the backrest or rest their arms
on the armrest, I fail to understand. You can enjoy the comfort of the company
of 8 to 10 other sweaty, slightly sunburnt prodigy-producing parents and coaches,
seated back-to-back, side-to-back, or even arm-over-arm squeezed under small
patches of broken shadow cast by a few parched trees scattered around the
venue.
A good number of these individuals can be caught staring at their phones
– which is what a good number of any good people are caught doing these days. Some
are lost in parallel realms, their noses buried deep in books thicker than
medieval castle walls. And then there's the I-must-stay-adequately-hydrated
population taking swigs from their own private flasks - or bottles as we muggles call it (I've had my doubts that
the flasks secretly contain Polyjuice potion and the drinkers are paid
babysitters filling in for the insufferably bored parents/coaches). Not
to mention the I-eat-when-I’m bored lot munching on homemade (that sometimes look like they have been half sat-on) sandwiches or digestive biscuits or toasted
almonds or anything else typically labelled ‘healdhy’ as they wait for their
cerebral champs to come back with a grim or a grinning face.
Real-life sample of a scoresheet |
Once your child is back from the game, you'll have the excitement of decoding the scoresheets. Reading them can be as complicated as the game itself when your child's handwriting makes every alphabet curiously resemble every other English alphabet. Some people resort to approaching their child's opponent to ask for their scoresheets in order to scout for clues and deduce missing bits of mission-critical information. In the chess world, it's often encouraged to convert the game into .pgn files reading the scoresheets by using simple-as-calculus apps meant for the purpose.
The best part of the entire ordeal is listening to your child excitedly jabber nonstop about how they used a newly learned tactic to capture the opponent's bishop on g3, how the opponent forked their pawn and knight with their queen on b6, and how they still managed to finish off the opponent with a brilliant mate-in-4. Nodding along, throwing in a couple of questions like 'wow, really?' and 'are you serious?!' and occasionally sprinkling in a few deeper questions like 'did your opponent blunder?' and 'what opening did you play?' or 'did you finally get the dream position today?' might make you seem like the intelligent, dedicated Chess Mom that you are.
Image for illustration purpose only. |
Behold, what other path shall a parent tread when their child's heart is captivated by the art of chess?